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Pro Domination verses Escorting/Prostitution By Mistress Patricia "Pro Domination is not prostitution"A statement I'm sure you're very well aware of. The Question of SexIf there is anything that Pro Dommes have been striving to communicate to Our potential clients, it is that We don't have traditional penetration sex with Our clients " Pro Dommes are not prostitutes!" Now this isn't to say that I look down upon the trade of prostitution, I believe it's a service that too is needed in society, but it is not to be confused with Pro Domination. At the same time it would be false to say that sessions with a Pro Domme are never of an erotic nature, that sexual feelings are not allowed, and that sexual energy is never exchanged or released. Sexual energy and sexual feelings are a driving force behind many sessions, not all, but many. If you are visiting with a true Dominatrix, you can count on the fact that you are not going to have anything resembling traditional/vanilla sex with Her. That being said, each Pro Domina has Her own set of rules or limitations as to how far or how erotic Her sessions may go, and again, this may vary from client to client depending on attraction, negotiations, or fantasy. It may also simply be based on the local, provincial or federal laws.
Differences Between a Pro Domme and an Escort With a Whip I think I speak for most Domme's when I say that We are "experts" in Our field. At least We should be if We are claiming to be Professionals. We don't just go to the nearest xxx store to buy a flogger and call Ourselves Professionals. We study, We practice, We research and beat the hell out of Our furniture before the "toy" makes it to the asses, thighs, soles or shoulder blades of Our boys/bottoms/submissive/clients. We study anatomy knowing what's safe before We take Our favorite paddle and mistakably beat the piss (no pun intended) out of someone's kidneys. We study the psychology of the submissive mind to understand a submissives needs, be it a fetish for spanking, leather, golden showers, humiliation etc. We communicate and negotiate sessions. We have the confidence and the know-how to fulfill most fantasies. We are able to play with both the novice and the experienced. We have invested much money in "toys of the trade" We are not beyond admitting that We are constantly learning new things. We understand that not all Dominants/submissives are a perfect match. We have Mastered the Decadence of Dominance. We are quite simply...Domme. Good escorts are also professionals. But in a different field. Their expertise lies in erotic pleasure usually ending in penetration sex. I'm not saying every escort doesn't have what it takes to be a Pro Domme. I'm sure some also posses the confidence and attitude of supremacy along with common knowledge of safety. I'm merely stating that the two professions differ. I was speaking with a submissive recently that was not able to make an appointment with a Dominatrix. he proceeded to answer an add in a local paper that advertised Pro Domination with sex for a very cheap price. he communicated he was not interested in the sexual act of intercourse but did desire a good paddling with no welts or bruises. Just a good red ass and then perhaps be allowed to masturbate himself in front of her. Without going into too much detail the poor boy almost had his tail bone broken. With the very first whack on his ass she missed his cheek and whacked him right on the tailbone with a heavy wooden paddle. he was in so much pain (and not the good kind) that he could not continue with the service. After only 10 minutes, $100.00 spent, and a limp, he left wondering how he was going to explain his discomfort to his wife. Had he hired this girl for what her profession really was, he most likely would of had the best piece of ass in his life. Unfortunately I have heard way too many stories like this one. Perhaps one day I will write a collection of them. (Some being quite humorous...others not) When "shopping" for the Domme of your fantasies take into consideration what I've said in this article, and always remember 'don't expect "good sex" from the Pro Domme.... don't expect "good BDSM" from the pro escort.'
Mistress Patricia June 20th 2002
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